A:不要傷到人家最軟的傷口
吵架會有些點
你知道戳這個會最有用、能吵贏
但是不能戳哪裡
一旦這個點戳了
也許你贏而人家輸了。
但卻可能從此冷漠或分開
再也不會跟你吵
除非不要這段關係
不然千萬不要這麼做
(註:這其實是我的提問
特別感謝我的大學同學智慧分享
對話略有改編但大意不變)
A: Don't hurt their most sensitive wounds.
People have some weak points.
You know where to hit to be the most effective and win the argument.
But you shouldn't hit certain places.
Once you touch that point, you might win while the other person loses.
But it could lead to indifference or separation, and they might never argue with you again.
Unless you want to end this relationship, please avoid doing so.
(Note: This was actually my question.
Special thanks to my college classmate for sharing his wisdom.
The conversation has been slightly adapted, but the essence remains the same.)